Redefining the Missing
Ann
Romney was attacked for being a homemaker. Hillary Clinton is often
made fun of for wearing pantsuits. Models are blasted for being anorexic
and the average woman criticized for being obese. Girls are told to be
princesses, but scolded for being divas. Adolescent girls are pushed to
grow up, and then society wonder why innocents does not last. Are these
things connected? Do they stem from the same thing?
I
believe women are once again in the midst of an unacknowledged
revolution, a counter-feminism, if you will. All women agree on
ownership, voting, individual rights, equal employment opportunity,
salary, work competition, etc. But for young women, the rest has become
secondary and is defined by each female as she grows and forms opinions.
I think subconsciously, many women are finding it is no longer
mandatory to be feminists, nor do they necessarily want the title with a
rather heavy history attached. This generation wants the basic ideals
and victories feminism won without the hard exterior, the anti-man
attitude and pressure to be the ultimate power-woman. The power of a
woman is known and acknowledged and it is time for something different.
Perhaps the Ann Romney situation shows us that women are still too
sensitive to gender roles, but also it is a sign we have more changing
to do.
These
images show the dress - the shell or shroud of a female. It is a symbol
of “woman”, of her emotions, spirit, potential, future, and her
identity or lack thereof. It waits or lives in all sorts of places, a
mere reflection, a symbol, of what we could be or of what we are now.
Hopefully, the dress connects with women, relatable or representational
of something in their lives. The light is very strong, often dramatic
and placed to inspire stories or ideas of what comes next. The lighting
either acts as a spotlight or as a contender for the dress and its fate.
The light is almost the opposite of the dress, but also reveals what
one needs to see about this image and about the dress.
The
“missing” women will redefine the “dress”, someday. I believe it will
be a change we all want and that it will be the definition of “woman”
and “feminism” we want and have been looking for all along.